Cohousing 101

Cohousing is a intentional neighborhood design that balances the privacy of your own home with shared spaces designed for connection. Here's what that means in practice.

Why cohousing is the future of neighborhoods

Start with a short TEDx talk from Trish Becker-Hafnor, president of CohoUS, on why cohousing feels like the future of neighborhoods.

Play Trish Becker-Hafnor TED talk

Trish Becker-Hafnor, president of CohoUS, shares how cohousing creates people-first neighborhoods.

Cohousing IS...

PRIVATE

Complete homes with full kitchens, bedrooms, and private spaces—yet designed to encourage connection with neighbors

PURPOSEFUL

Neighbors who commit to supporting each other through daily life, raising kids, and building lasting community

PARTICIPATORY

Residents actively shape community decisions and contribute to maintaining shared spaces together

NEIGHBORLY

Intentional design brings neighbors together naturally—kids play safely, adults connect easily, all ages belong

Cohousing is NOT...

Not a commune

Finances and households stay completely separate. You own your home, manage your own money, pursue your own career.

Not co-living

Each household has a fully equipped private home with complete kitchen and private spaces. This isn't shared housing.

Not forced togetherness

Participation is flexible and opt-in. You choose your level of engagement based on your energy, schedule, and life stage.

Not just for extroverts

Many introverts thrive in cohousing because connection happens naturally without the 'work' of planning it. Social interaction is built-in but never required.

Not a time sink

Members contribute 4 hours per month—less time than you'd spend on yard work and home maintenance in a typical suburban home. Work is shared, so the load stays light.

Questions about cohousing?

Learn more about life at Harmony Village, participation requirements, and whether cohousing is right for you.